Zaman\u0131n birinde bir \u00fclkenin padi\u015fah\u0131, veliaht\u0131 olan o\u011flunu en iyi \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in seferber olmu\u015f.<\/p>\n
\u00dclkenin en iyi hocalar\u0131 emrinde, her istedi\u011fi yerine getirilir, ne isterse an\u0131nda olurmu\u015f.<\/p>\n
Nas\u0131l olmu\u015fsa gen\u00e7 \u015fehzade, okudu\u011fu baz\u0131 kitaplar sayesinde ava merak sarm\u0131\u015f. Lalas\u0131 da \u015fehzade i\u00e7in \u00f6zel av partileri d\u00fczenler, kurmu\u015f oldu\u011fu \u00f6zel ekiple \u015fehzadeyi e\u011flendirir, av merak\u0131n\u0131 gidermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n
Av partileri bazen g\u00fcnlerce devam eder, ak\u015famlar\u0131 da klasik avc\u0131 muhabbetleri olurmu\u015f. Baz\u0131 avc\u0131lar ba\u015flar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en abart\u0131l\u0131 av hikayelerini anlat\u0131p e\u011flenirlermi\u015f.<\/p>\n
Bir ak\u015fam yine b\u00f6yle muhabbet devam ederken, \u015fehzade hazretleri de a\u015fka gelip, bir geyik av\u0131 maceras\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f. En sonunda da “geyi\u011fe bir ok att\u0131m geyik kebap oldu”<\/strong> diye bitirmi\u015f.<\/p>\n Di\u011fer avc\u0131lar \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n bakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015flar.<\/p>\n Durumu fark eden lala, hemen s\u00f6ze girip anlatmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n “Niye \u00f6yle \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n \u015fa\u015fk\u0131n bak\u0131yorsunuz! \u015eehzadem geyi\u011fe ok at\u0131nca, ok geyi\u011fin b\u00f6\u011fr\u00fcn\u00fc deldi, oradan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p bir ta\u015fa \u00e7arpt\u0131, ta\u015ftan s\u0131\u00e7rayan k\u0131v\u0131lc\u0131m yandaki \u00e7al\u0131lar\u0131 tutu\u015fturdu. Geyik bu ate\u015fin i\u00e7ine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp pi\u015fti; bizde afiyetle yedik”<\/strong>diye s\u00f6zlerini ba\u011flam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n \u015eehzade ma\u011frur bir \u015fekilde lalas\u0131na bakm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n Yine av partileri devam etmi\u015f. Bir ba\u015fka ak\u015fam \u015fehzademiz i\u015fi biraz daha abartarak “bir ok att\u0131m g\u00f6l oldu”<\/strong> deyivermi\u015f.<\/p>\n Di\u011fer avc\u0131lar alayl\u0131 ifadelerle lalaya bakarak “hadi bakal\u0131m bu sefer i\u015fin i\u00e7inden nas\u0131l \u00e7\u0131kacaks\u0131n”<\/strong> der gibi s\u0131r\u0131t\u0131rlarken, lala hemen s\u00f6ze girmi\u015f.<\/p>\n “Evet evet \u00e7ok iyi hat\u0131rlad\u0131m”<\/strong> demi\u015f.<\/p>\n “\u015eehzadem bir yaban ke\u00e7isine ok atm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ok ke\u00e7iyi vurduktan sonra bir ta\u015fa \u00e7arpm\u0131\u015f o ta\u015f\u0131 par\u00e7alam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ta\u015f bir su g\u00f6zesini kapat\u0131yormu\u015f. Ta\u015f par\u00e7alan\u0131nca su f\u0131\u015fk\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Oradaki \u00e7ukuru doldurup g\u00f6le d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Biz de o g\u00f6lde bir g\u00fczel y\u0131kanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k”<\/strong> diye g\u00fczel bir k\u0131l\u0131f bulmu\u015f.<\/p>\n \u015eehzade a\u011fz\u0131 kulaklar\u0131nda, ba\u015f\u0131yla tasdik ederek lalas\u0131n\u0131 hayran hayran dinlemi\u015f.<\/p>\n Mutad oldu\u011fu \u00fczere, av partileri devam etmi\u015f.<\/p>\n Yine b\u00f6yle bir ak\u015fam, muhabbet s\u0131ras\u0131nda \u015fehzade a\u015fka gelerek “bir ok att\u0131m zerde oldu”<\/strong> deyivermi\u015f.<\/p>\n Tabi ki do\u011fal olarak g\u00f6zler hemen lalaya \u00e7evrilmi\u015f. Bakal\u0131m bu sefer lala ne anlatacak diye merakla beklenirken.<\/p>\n Lala kendisinden beklenmeyen bir tepkiyle \u015fehzadeye d\u00f6nerek:<\/p>\n – A \u015fehzadem \u00f6ncekilerde pek problem olmad\u0131 ama\u2026 \u015eimdi ben da\u011f ba\u015f\u0131nda pirinci, \u015fekeri, s\u00fct\u00fc, safran\u0131, yumurtay\u0131 bin bir \u00e7e\u015fit malzemeyi nerden bulay\u0131m demi\u015f. <\/strong><\/p>\n **********************<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan\u0131m\u0131z bazen durup dururken, yok yere gereksiz g\u00fcndemler olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n Son olarak “\u00fcniversiteli k\u0131zlar ve erkekler ayn\u0131 evlerde kal\u0131yorlar; bu konuya el ataca\u011f\u0131z, gerekli \u015feyleri yapaca\u011f\u0131z”<\/strong> ifadeleri tabiri caizse g\u00fcndeme bomba gibi d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n Bu konudaki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131klamaya bile gerek duymuyorum. B\u00f6yle bir duruma raz\u0131 olabilecek ana baba say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yok denebilecek kadar az oldu\u011funu da biliyorum.<\/p>\n O zaman problem nerede diyeceksiniz?<\/p>\n Problem \u015furada:<\/p>\n Siz Avrupa birli\u011fi uyum yasalar\u0131 \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde, re\u015fit olan insanlar\u0131n kendi r\u0131zalar\u0131yla olan nikahs\u0131z birlikteliklerini zina olmaktan \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z. Ki\u015finin kendi \u015fikayeti olmad\u0131k\u00e7a, kanunlar\u0131n yapt\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n Tut ki b\u00f6yle bir durum var. 19 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00fcniversiteli k\u0131z, erkek arkada\u015f\u0131 ile ayn\u0131 evde kal\u0131yor. Buna nas\u0131l bir yapt\u0131r\u0131m uygulayacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u015eu anki yasalarda buna engel bir durumun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilinmiyor mu?<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan, mizac\u0131 gere\u011fi kendisine iletilen konular \u00fczerinde bazen hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp tartmadan fikirler serdediyor.<\/p>\n Kanaatimiz odur ki; bu konunun yasalarla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Problem aile kavram\u0131n\u0131n ve aile temelinin sa\u011flam bir yap\u0131ya kavu\u015fturulmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu konu e\u011fitim temelinde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturulmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n Birbirleriyle yak\u0131nl\u0131k ba\u011f\u0131 olmayan k\u0131z ve erkeklerin ayn\u0131 evi payla\u015fmas\u0131 konusunda bir anket yapsan\u0131z, eminim ki toplumun y\u00fczde doksan dokuzu buna kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ra\u011fmen, az da olsa d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde rastlanabilecek olan bu duruma, elbette \u00fclkemizde de \u00f6rnekler \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu durumu genelleyerek, \u00fcniversite gen\u00e7li\u011fini t\u00f6hmet alt\u0131nda b\u0131rakmak ho\u015f bir davran\u0131\u015f, ya da s\u00f6ylem de\u011fildir<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bize g\u00f6re maksad\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fan s\u00f6zler olarak s\u00f6yledi\u011fini sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ifadelerini, B\u00fclent Ar\u0131n\u00e7 ve Yal\u00e7\u0131n Akdo\u011fan\u2019\u0131 yalanc\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmak pahas\u0131na s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmesi de ho\u015f olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan\u2019\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu icraatlar\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a destekledik, ileride do\u011fru yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerde de deste\u011fimizi yine s\u00fcrd\u00fcrece\u011fimizi ifade ederken, bu konuda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131n yersiz oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemeden ge\u00e7emeyece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n Bunlar\u0131 ifade ederken, bahsedilen konudan da rahats\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzu elbette ifade edebiliriz. Anadolu\u2019dan gelip, maddi imkans\u0131zl\u0131klar sebebiyle \u00e7e\u015fitli tuzaklara d\u00fc\u015fen k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ile ilgili zaman zaman bas\u0131na yans\u0131yan haberler de okuyoruz<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan\u2019\u0131n g\u00fcndeme getirdi\u011fi konunun birinci muhataplar\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenci aileleridir. Konunun bu \u015fekilde dile getirilmesinden ziyade, aileler baz\u0131nda bir uyar\u0131 yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsayd\u0131 daha iyi olurdu kanaatindeyim.<\/p>\n Yasal olarak yap\u0131labilecek hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yokken, bu konunun bu \u015fekilde g\u00fcndeme gelmesi bize g\u00f6re AKP hanesine yaz\u0131lan bir eksi puand\u0131r.<\/p>\n Re\u015fit insanlar\u0131n, evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir arada kendi r\u0131zalar\u0131yla ya\u015famalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7 olmaktan \u00e7\u0131karan bir h\u00fck\u00fcmetin, ayn\u0131 konudan \u015fikayet etmesi yanl\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ba\u015fbakan zaman zaman \u00f6fkeyle bir tak\u0131m \u015feyler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. S\u00f6zc\u00fcler ve dan\u0131\u015fmanlar bu s\u00f6zleri ellerinden geldi\u011fince tevil etme yoluna giriyorlar. <\/p>\n Son olayda tevil de pek i\u015fe yaramad\u0131.<\/p>\n Yukar\u0131daki f\u0131kray\u0131 bunun i\u00e7in sizlere sundum.<\/p>\n Allah kimseyi B\u00fclent Ar\u0131n\u00e7\u2019\u0131n durumuna d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmesin. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Zaman\u0131n birinde bir \u00fclkenin padi\u015fah\u0131, veliaht\u0131 olan o\u011flunu en iyi \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in seferber olmu\u015f. \u00dclkenin en iyi hocalar\u0131 emrinde, her istedi\u011fi yerine getirilir, ne isterse an\u0131nda olurmu\u015f. Nas\u0131l olmu\u015fsa gen\u00e7 \u015fehzade, okudu\u011fu baz\u0131 kitaplar sayesinde ava merak sarm\u0131\u015f. Lalas\u0131 da \u015fehzade i\u00e7in \u00f6zel av partileri d\u00fczenler, kurmu\u015f oldu\u011fu \u00f6zel ekiple \u015fehzadeyi e\u011flendirir, av merak\u0131n\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=502"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":503,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/502\/revisions\/503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mehdinuzhetcetinbas.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}